Is Your Child Out
Of Your Control?

Is your child out of your control article by Vanshika Anand...

We not only get our children admitted in a good school for their mental development but also send them to gym to help them to be strong physically.

Besides this we take care of their spiritual growth. We also fulfil their materialistic needs. In spite of sacrificing our own desires and comforts for the sake of our children we are not valued and respected enough.

Actually the reasons are deep-rooted and can be understood if you have wide-thinking patterns. Rigid attitude of parents just increase the problem in spite of decreasing it. So read the following to find out the root of the problem and solutions:

1. Too Much Interfering

Most of us think because we are more experienced we have the right to interfere in our child's activities like studying, playing, working, enjoying etc.

We forget that besides your experiences your child's own experiences are also needed for his all round development. This habit keeps your child away.

2. Comparing

More than half of us are in the grip of this fatal tendency. We want our child to be ahead. And in the passion we compare him to other children.

In the beginning your child keeps quite but soon starts developing angry feeling towards you.

3. Negative Focusing

In most of the cases we focus on what our child can't do in spite of concentrating on what he is capable of doing. It makes your child feel inferior, and somewhere he holds his parents responsible for it.

4. Bullying

In order to make our children disciplined, though unintentionally, we present ourselves like villains in front of our children. We impose so hard and fast rules that our children gradually develops hatred towards us.

The same handling pattern continues even if our children grow up. If you want to get respect as well as love of your child from this very moment you must start giving your child appropriate freedom, appreciation, friendly behaviour and a patient hearing.

If these solutions are applied sincerely and patiently a better relationship will definitely develop between you and your child.

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